This epidemic what women ‘really want’

Soft, squishy, out of shape men that enjoy a scone more than a barbell

You know what amigo? I well believe it

It all relates to the confidence results I posted yesterday

Ladies that have little to no confidence are hardly going to go out with a fitness model

Remember Ryan Gosling taking his top off in Crazy Stupid Love? (Lads don’t deny you haven’t seen it)

The chico in front of him couldn’t believe his shape and she stood there in discomfort

Now I know ladies loved that clip and they all had that moment ‘if I got my hands on him’

BUT

If that moment actually happened a lot of ladies would be intimidated by his shape and wouldn’t be that comfortable whipping off their own clothes

^ us Irish are well known for ‘lights off’ antics (which is crazy)

See some shapes are nice to look at but the very same are not nice to go out with

If your uncomfortable in your own skin then you’re going to be uncomfortable stripping off in front of a person in better shape (in your eyes)

So you ’settle’ for a less demanding shape that’s a lil more relaxed and doesn’t really care if he’s a belly and lil bit moobie

We all know ladies prefer the Ryan Gosling and fitness model look

And if you don’t believe me then why wasn’t Seth Rogen the lead role of Magic Mike?

If you’re naturally attracted to a lad with abs then go for it

If they like you then don’t be uncomfortable in your own skin

And don’t for one second think the lad with abs doesn’t enjoy going out or having a pizza every now and again – a lad with abs does not equal fitness obsessed or boring

Get comfortable, get confident and don’t settle for Dad Bod (at least don’t call it a superior body anyways)

Laters

Dave ‘Ryan for the win’ Gallagher